HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO ALL MOTHERS.

It's world mothers day today,perhaps the only day that i like a celebrate. Mother is the other name of unconditional love,care,affection and sympathy and sincerity. If i was to vote the most valuable gift that nature has provided us i would have voted none but the Mother. It is the Islam that gave women the real respect,status and dignity when she was treated nothing more than a curse and worthless,when they not even had the right to come in this world. And this is the same Islam that states "paradise lies under the feet of a mother". This hadith of the  Messenger of  Allah and of the love,peace,equality and truth clearly shows the shortest way to reach the paradise n the way is the obedience of our mother,the route is to love and care for our mothers,this way is to leave no limit to serve our beloved mother. It has been clearly stated in the holy Qur'an that ; we should obey,respect and serve our parents and don't even say oops to them no matter how n what they wish and demand unless it's not against Islamic fundamentals. 
              I remember how many times i hurt my mother(may Allah forgive for that) but my mom never stopped loving and caring me,many a times i stopped talking to her but her love for me bring her to me every time. How many times i let her down but she still hold me and showed me the real path. In her hands is the best medicine of the universe for all the diseases,her love and care is worth 1000 times better than any medicine and doctor. But unfortunately we never realize what she did for us,what she tolerated time and again right from the day we came into this world. For the sake of this lusty world,for the sake of few days and that too unIslamic love and all we have forgotten the most precious gift of the God the lovely mother,we forget the pains and sufferings that she had to suffer just because of us,we prefer gf,job,money etc to the mother who still cries and keeps in prayers for us when we are outside,when we are in any difficulty. Why are lakes of mother in old age homes,where has our morality even humanity gone. What we think is more precious,valuable and worthy in this world than a mother? We celebrate the mothers day but do we fulfill our duties and responsibilities towards our mothers,do we love and care them as they did and are still doing.Just organizing seminars and symposiums are going to do nothing what is needed is that we change our mindset and realize our moral and Islamic responsibilities towards our mother,we have to give them back what they did for us though i know we can never do that even if we serve them the whole life,the best  way  to celebrate this day is to change ourselves and make a commitment today that we will do what we are supposed to do for our Mother,our sweet Mother..Love u mother,u r what no one else is nor can..........!!!!!!!!!!

BACK FROM KASHMIR.........

The thirst from almost nine months to visit my home,meet my nears n dears,mostly my two cutest nephews was finally ended on 17th March 2012. This was the day i left from Hyderabad to my homeland Kashmir. The 3 day travel to Kashmir was Alhamdullilah good. Reaching home i expectedly got  warm welcome firstly by my elder nephew (who was waiting me at the bus stand) and them my whole family. I couldn't imagine how happy i and my family was to see me back at home. Here i tell u my family,all the members love me more than anything. The next day i was send with my only sister for shopping etc as she was gonna engaged few days later and till the day of engagement i hardly got a minute to relax,well that of course was my duty as whole family was looking at me to arrange all the thing.  Alhamdulliah the engagement ceremony ended happily and i tell u they r too simple and polite family. 
          Then started my time to visit my friends and relatives and remained much busy in meeting as many of them as possibly but still i manged to give maximum of time to my family and in enjoying and having fun with my cutie nephews whom i love toooooooooo much. In between some important meeting took place and was offered a good post by one of my well wisher and friend in his new project that had been sold to him by the previous owner. I thanked him for the offer but requested him to give me time. Well i still assured him of my full support and help in running his project that too without any compensation. The month i was at home i met some very very dear friend with whom i rally had lot of fun and the time spend with them will be ever remembering for me. One thing that i regret for this month is that during last few days there i got some misunderstanding with my dearest friend and we stopped talking but i miss that person a lot and wish we be like before again as soon as possible. 
          This months ended in just hours,honestly during this time i enjoyed that much that i sometimes feel as if the month was less than a minute,i miss all the things and all the moments and will continue till my next visit back to my home. From the health point of view i was bit abnormal,my skin couldn't adjust quickly to the cold climate there as a result i got bit blackish there. Finally the month that i had waited for almost 9 months came to an end and i had to return back though unwilling but for the sake of my job i had to and finally the morning came and a car was waiting for me to drop me up to bus stand and  i packed myself and receiving hugs from my family members with tears in their eyes though more in mine i left and left crying inside but controlling outside for the sake of my family who already were missing me perhaps more than i did. A famous kashmiri phrase is 'ghar wandhai ghar saasa,che hue khasa wuchum na kaahn." ...................!

WHEN IT HURTS A LOT,IT REALLY PAINS.....

                The results of the annual regular 12th class examination conducted by the JKBOSE were declared few days back. I had been waiting for the same for a long time and why not my younger brother,my beloved brother whom i love more then anything else had appeared in the said examination. Here i tell u he is the most intelligent guy of our village,he has always topped his class and in admired by the all including me. Me,my family and relatives had many many expectations from him and were sure he will be among the list of top 50 meritorious candidates in the 12th class examination. But my father always keeps saying intelligent people r often careless and ya it was proved again,my brother has failed in 3 of the 5 subjects he had appeared. This news was more than a shock for me,my family and all those who knew him. Honestly this news was very very emotional for us,it broke us,it left us shattered,it really really left my whole family in tears. Am not at home but i can imagine the situation and atmosphere he must b facing and the pressure from the family members but he is himself responsible for all this. He took everything lightly and wasted most of his precious time in playing, with Facebook,watching TV,on phone and so on. He hardly realized the worth of the time he was wasting over the things he could have did unlimitedly once completing his examination. He didn't imagined the consequences he was gonna face in case of failing to clear his examination.
             I personally tell u that i couldn't stop myself when i heard this shocking news,i was stunned,tears came out of my eyes and they still do mostly bcoz i love him lot and had tonnes of expectations from him,i was hurt and deeply hurt and it pains and really pains a lot all the time he comes in my mind but still i have to act as if am not broken bcoz i have to take care of my family too.I know my whole family including my brave father and mother are looking at me this time to find the way out to come out of this shock.I do try to b brave in front of them but am lost,m broken and deeply shocked.I always told him that your career in important and precious than anything else and all that u have will be only if u have a good future but i agree with my father " he is intelligent but careless".I know nothing could b done now just to forget it all and move forward to start thinking of how to overcome all this and how to shape new strategies for him so that he returns back to track. I know Almighty  will be having good planning for him in this loss but still it pains more because he was not worthy of it,he is Alhamdullilah intelligent so this should not have happened to him.Well now am busy in handling the whole situation,him and the family and the external pressure but i tell u it's very difficult and the whole family is in deep shock,someone has rightly said 'mistake by one often costs a lot'.I have firm belief that in such a situation bowing your head in front of Almighty gives u strength and makes things easy and that is what i told all to do and Inshallah with our support and blessings from u all m sure my brother will come out of it and will Inshallah surely prove what he is worth of,may be this mistake will teach him a lot and will be decisive to make his future bright.
                     

DEVIL RUSHDIE AND FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION...

So finally Rushdie as expected  has failed to attend the Rajasthan Literature Festival  . Honestly I personally believe that the whole issue was politicized this time at least. The election fever seemed too open in the whole episode. Muslims in India have always backed Congress but the fact is that Congress has did nothing for Muslims rather then exploiting them and getting there vote. I firmly believe Congress is not a friend of Muslims in India and it never will be. Muslims have suffered lot during their tenure and the so called muslim MP's and MLA's  have always danced on the tunes of their masters,Sonia r gadkare or else.

            

          Anyways I was talking about devil Rushdie. The Rushdie issue and the opposition by Muslim groups was a hot issue in Indian media describing it against the freedom of expression. OK freedom of expression is alright but isn't it the protest of Muslims in India to protest if someone hurts their religious sentiments and why the hell should someone be allowed to come here who can create for the law and order situation,make atmosphere tense and can create other problems too,I tell u the administration and Govt was fully aware about all that was gonna happen. Leave all this i want to ask the Indian media and the so called civil society one question,where was the said freedom when prashant bhushan and arundati rai supported the genuine demands and grievances of the people of Kashmir and were targeted for speaking truth.Where had the freedom of expression gone when M F Hussain remained exiled the whole life. Why the said freedom always for the people who hurt the religious sentiments of Muslims . Why is someone anti nation if he/she speaks out about the inhuman crimes committed in the Kashmir.Why these double standards,why freedom of expression only and always for speaking against Muslims and hurting their sentiments and forcing them to come on streets. Why does people always want cheap publicity at the cost of hurting religious sentiments of Muslim,have we Muslims did it ever and we never allow so because our religion teaches us to respect all religions and if we protest for what is our right and religious duty why r we treated as anti to the freedom of expression of speech.Islam is the religion of peace, love, equality etc but m sure one must not treat it our weakness,Muslims can and have dedicated their blood when it comes to safeguard our religions fundamentals,we love peace as our religion teaches us but we are also taught not to compromise with our religious principles and fundamentals  ......

I LOVE TO BE IN LOVE AND BEING LOVED BUT...???

It was a free evening and me and my friend were busy in entertaining each other. Suddenly my friend asked me do u love someone? I had no option than to agree but my reply was , ' yes i love to be in love and being loved.' . I then asked him what do u mean by love,he said 'i don't know bcoz i have never been blessed with love,was always alone'. Here i remind u that he always keeps telling me about the care,love and affection of his parents particularly his mother towards him,so i failed to understand why he was never loved and was always alone. Anyways he continued what is love? I did know he wanted to listen about the boy and girl relationship.   

                                   Well i personally feel when we love someone we care for him/her,we respect him/her,we wish to see and keep them happy,we miss them whenever we are happy or in trouble,we wish them with us when we need help,we never expect anything from them in return to our love and care for them. I said to my friend i feel the love,the real and unconditional love when i leave my home in Kashmir to come here in Hyderabad and my mother hugs me,kisses my forehead and her eyes turn wet,i feel the love when i am ill and my father comes to me,puts his hand on my head and tells me to have that cup on tea that is in his hand,i feel the real love when my father calls me hundred times till i reach Hyderabad,i see the love in the conversation that i daily have with my 5 year old nephew and when he asks me,"uncle when will u come back home,u always tell but u never come". I realize the real love when someone says bad about me and my sister instantly scrolls him/her(even if she is angry with me). I know it that it is the love when someone cries when i tell him/her that i  have no relation with him/her.Love is a pious term and the company of our beloved makes our time beautiful,makes us relaxed and we forget all our worries etc in the presence of beloved one.

                                     I know to be in love or better to say to be in a relationship with a boy/girl is no bad, But can anyone tell me what has been the definition of love turned into in modern days. I don't see anything in modern love else then the thirst of physical closeness. I have discussed about this issue with more then two,three hundred people (who have been in relation with girl/boy) and honestly most of them one or the other way treated the love merely a physical relationship and a tool of entertainment and mostly had it because others had it too. I know there are cases that we must not include in it but see the majority. Seriously and honestly i love to be loved and being in love but where is that unconditional care,respect,sense of responsibility for each other that makes the love,that love which makes the life beautiful,makes us strong enough to face any difficulty and gives us courage to overcome any tough time anywhere and anytime. Where is the sense of giving more to whom we love and expecting less in return,where does the understanding go when just a simple thing starts cursing our so called true love(i feel understanding,trust and care are the only thing to make any relationship long lasting and strong).. All of us know and agree that mothers love is the most pious one,does she leave us when there is some misunderstanding or any other thing like this.....??????????

HAPPY SNOWFALL IN THE VALLEY

So that's it,the long awaited snowfall brought smiles on the faces of the people of Kashmir. And why not snow is the lifeline for the backbone of Kashmir's economy.But the fact is that this snow also exposes the ill governance n ill administration in the valley.With every drop of rain n every dancing ball of snow coming down the difficulties of the people also accompany them. Power crises,blocked roads,shortage of essential commodities,artificial price hike are a common thing during this period n have been there since ages,but what is irony is that the so called state n center Govt never took serious measure to make sure that these problem don't occur every year.

                  Any ways I am sure nothing is gonna change in near future,no matter how much we cry n protest.but ya the snowfall in valley(that unfortunately m not able to experience) took my memories back to my early days n our darling winter vacations. From my childhood i loved to watch snowfall n rain. I remembered that when i used to get up in the morning i directly used to go out to begin my day by watching how much snow has fallen.I used to take my NAMKEEN TEA as fast as i can to go into our lawn park with my younger brother r sister to make snowman n to make roads on snow by our foot n run into these roads one by one(i used to imagine by this that m a bus n carrying passengers on different roads). At around 10 am it was our time to move towards tuition,there we used to have a lot of fun till our teachers arrived,mind u snow war locally known as 'SHEEN JUNG' is one war that every one used to fight.We never missed any chance to taste the snow.
                 I had a strange love with nature right since my childhood,i remember whenever the snowfall took place during the night n in the morning the whole area looked covered by the lovely clean white cover,i remember that scene making me so happy that i can just feel but can't explain in words.During night i often used to go out to check whether r not the snow is still falling.The loud n bungling falling of snow from the roofs of our homes (mostly made of teen in reciprocal V shape) was something that made our sleep so sweet.I always love the voice of the snow falling from the roofs with full swing n producing some roaring sounds.To enjoy the beautiful  n pure scene of first snowfall morning i used to go to our nearby apple garden all alone n sit on snow n look towards the trees covered by snow n the planes with white cover,i just love that scene.I remember that pin drop silence there in the garden n nature's beauty to its full n m sure that would b much enough for anyone to become nature loving if he/she was not till then.Guys m in Hyderabad now n honestly m damn sad that m not in valley n experiencing those magical scenes of snow even i know we can do those childish acts now that we enjoyed during our childhood but ya i miss the snow,i miss the beautiful n coooool valley,i miss my home n my friends,i miss namkeen tea,i miss so many other thing,i miss n ya i miss a lot...........!!!!!!  

WHAT PEOPLE SEE IN A BRIDE..............

Assalam u alikum,hi hello,hope all r good,well yesterday my friend was telling me that what people look when they search a bride for their sons,meine kaha aj kal to log ek to pehle 100 se 200 girls dekhte ha aur phir unko koi pasand aate ha aur just physical beauty dekhte ha,economic status dekhte ha,even jis boy k liye rishta dekha jata ha wo khud b utna handsome nai hota,i said k ye trend buhat galat ha n is a big curse in our so called civilised society,hona to yeh chaheye tha k hamare parents ladki wo dhondte jo ache bahu ban sake,ache married life possible bana sake,sirf beautiful aur rich hona kafi nai hota ha,aisa karna bewakoofi ha ,,,.....